[There's some resistance (token, really) –– then after she tips her head to the side for a few moments, giving Req better access, she abruptly changes tactics and presses her hands to Req's shoulders, nearly slamming her down on the bed so she can readjust and sit squarely on her hips and pin her there. She's curved over her, tail swishing slowly, and giving a clear showing of dominance.]

Then maybe you should ask nicely for what you want.