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DAY 335 S2FpYmE=, King and Man Eater graduate

DAY 338 Fanmail delivery

DAY 339 New kenkyuusei added

it's graduation season! what tales of effervescent youth are coming to an end, and what new tales will begin...

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Does anyone have any advice for what to do when your mind reacts in some very very strange ways to something really bad that happened to you and you don't know if it's healthy or not

Usually I'd talk to my friends about things that bother me but I'm scared of talking about it face to face because I'm afraid they'll think me strange or be uncomfortable

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
as someone whose mind has had some weird and definitely unhealthy reactions to bad things my advice is that youre shit out of luck just learn to live with it

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
But what kind of living with it? Do I just pretend it does not happen? I don't think that would work for me for a long amount of time, if any at all...

But selfish as it is, I am a little relieved to hear I am not the only one.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
how you live with it depends on what kind of issue youre having

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Um
Well

I think it's wanting to re-experience what happened

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
What sort of things do people find physically attractive, or unattractive?

Obviously personality matters a lot, I'm not talking about that. Is there stuff that draws you to someone when seeing them for the first time? Or things that would prevent you from being attracted to them that way no matter what?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure no one here has ever had a normal healthy reaction to anything.

If you don't worry about whether it's "normal" or "healthy", why does it bother you?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
But I do worry about whether it is healthy or not?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Are you looking for answers in regards to men, women or in general?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
Well, what does "healthy" mean?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
In general. Though I guess if you're only attracted to men or women that's part of an answer.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Something that is not likely to develop into a behaviour or perception that will be damaging to me in the long term.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Is there anything wrong with living for other people?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
Then, what damaging behavior or perception are you worried about developing?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
Ultimately... That I deserve to be hurt.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Like

To beat it this time?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
Um

I wish it was like that, I suppose

but more to try and

enjoy it

i guess

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
Do you think that now?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
Not actively or consciously, but the feeling is there.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
Well, you're clearly conscious enough of it to worry about it. Which means you don't really want to think that. So... try not to. Keep an eye on it. Or ask someone you trust to warn you if it seems like you're doing it.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
I admit it is a little hard for me to focus on only the physical characteristics, but I'll do my best.

Physical fitness and strength is a big draw for me, though I think that is common. I like long hair, too... Facial hair as well. I suppose I enjoy the more 'rugged' kind of look on men?

Shapely legs are very good on everyone.

And I don't know if this is a physical or personality trait, but I think the way people carry themselves can be very attractive.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
Do you live only for the others?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
I think probably... there’s a lot of people who have similar experiences, so they might not think you’re very strange at all?

Or, at least, when I’ve reacted in a way that’s bad, I had people who were able to explain to me a little better what was going on.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I admit that I’m an opinionated person, but for something like this—whether for someone I know or not—I would do my best to set that aside.

Sometimes you can’t entirely or immediately control the way your mind or body tries to protect itself, but there’s nothing wrong with trying to understand it better.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-18 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I do trust my friends to prevent me from harming myself, but it's not foolproof... I don't know if I can trust myself not to make bad decisions spurred by this feeling. Especially when the matter at hand is... personal enough that my friends would not be able to find out until after the fact.
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