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DAY 335 S2FpYmE=, King and Man Eater graduate

DAY 338 Fanmail delivery

DAY 339 New kenkyuusei added

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it's graduation season! what tales of effervescent youth are coming to an end, and what new tales will begin...

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[(Anonymous)]

Does anyone have any advice for what to do when your mind reacts in some very very strange ways to something really bad that happened to you and you don't know if it's healthy or not

Usually I'd talk to my friends about things that bother me but I'm scared of talking about it face to face because I'm afraid they'll think me strange or be uncomfortable

[(Anonymous)]

as someone whose mind has had some weird and definitely unhealthy reactions to bad things my advice is that youre shit out of luck just learn to live with it

[(Anonymous)]

I'm pretty sure no one here has ever had a normal healthy reaction to anything.

If you don't worry about whether it's "normal" or "healthy", why does it bother you?

[(Anonymous)]

I think probably... there’s a lot of people who have similar experiences, so they might not think you’re very strange at all?

Or, at least, when I’ve reacted in a way that’s bad, I had people who were able to explain to me a little better what was going on.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, I admit that I’m an opinionated person, but for something like this—whether for someone I know or not—I would do my best to set that aside.

Sometimes you can’t entirely or immediately control the way your mind or body tries to protect itself, but there’s nothing wrong with trying to understand it better.

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when you say "strange ways" what do you mean?

[(Anonymous)]

What sort of things do people find physically attractive, or unattractive?

Obviously personality matters a lot, I'm not talking about that. Is there stuff that draws you to someone when seeing them for the first time? Or things that would prevent you from being attracted to them that way no matter what?

[(Anonymous)]

Are you looking for answers in regards to men, women or in general?

[(Anonymous)]

boobs

[(Anonymous)]

Well-defined muscles are nice, someone who obviously works out. And someone who's taller than me in general, but that's not very hard.

I'm pretty fond of longer hair, as well? It's nice to touch.

[(Anonymous)]

evry1 iv seen here so far has been hot

[(Anonymous)]

I'm still trying to figure that out myself. I didn't really think about it much before, and now it feels more that I'm attracted to certain physical traits because they're things people I'm fond of have. Rather than for their own merits, for most of the part.

I guess I appreciate a sense of elegance, especially in how women look, but even that's probably because I grew up around a lot of elegant women. It just makes sense to me that it's appealing?

[(Anonymous)]

Is there anything wrong with living for other people?

[(Anonymous)]

Do you live only for the others?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think so, so long as it isn't a case of "I wouldn't be alive otherwise."

But I think it's healthier to have multiple reasons to live.

[(Anonymous)]

yes

[(Anonymous)]

What is the hardest hurdle to pass in a relationship for you? I don't necessarily mean in a bad way. More like... what step is the hardest to overcome, emotionally, as the relationship progresses, so it can continue growing?

Of course there are things for some people like saying "I love you," or proposing marriage, or sex...

[(Anonymous)]

All of them have been hard. The ones I haven't gotten to yet seem even more hard.

[(Anonymous)]

I think definitely it was asking the other person if they wanted to be in a relationship in the first place... since at that point I didn't know if they felt the same way?

But other ones have been surprisingly easier, maybe because I felt like we were on the same page...

[(Anonymous)]

I have a crippling inability of telling people I love them and I despise myself for it. But I'm trying to overcome it, for them, because they deserve to know.

[(Anonymous)]

the hardest part is when it ends

[(Anonymous)]

Realising I was interested in them enough to want to have a serious relationship with them. For some reason I imagined I would be okay with keeping it casual, only for us to immediately fail that step.

[(Anonymous)]

Hey. It's my birthday soon. You're all invited.

[(Anonymous)]

Happy early birthday~!♥

[(Anonymous)]

Does anyone have advice for handling a long distance relationship? In particular, with someone who was transferred to another show.

We were already in...some kind of relationship with each other before they were transferred, it's just that we recently affirmed through letters that we want to be serious about it. I'm happy, of course, but now I'm not sure what's next, as it were. I intend to keep writing to them, but I don't really know what I should write about or what's the next step when there's no real way of knowing when we can meet again, if we ever do.

[(Anonymous)]

I think it would be a good idea to write about your daily happenings. It could be a way of achieving a sense of closeness even when you are apart - after all, a relationship is not simply about romance, but about sharing your life together. :)

I believe gifts would be good, as well. Something with sentimental value for that person?