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What is the hardest hurdle to pass in a relationship for you? I don't necessarily mean in a bad way. More like... what step is the hardest to overcome, emotionally, as the relationship progresses, so it can continue growing?

Of course there are things for some people like saying "I love you," or proposing marriage, or sex...

All of them have been hard. The ones I haven't gotten to yet seem even more hard.

What sort of things have you done, so far?

Starting dating, but the first time I did that it was a bad choice. Having sex. Having sex outside a relationship. Saying "I love you." Agreeing that a relationship we hadn't been labeling was dating. Saying we wanted to be with each other long-term.

Is something like "I love you" more difficult than sex, for you?

Yes. Much harder.

I see.

Maybe it's because I'm just a weak person, but I think people who can be so forward about their bodies are admirable. I can't imagine being that way.

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I think definitely it was asking the other person if they wanted to be in a relationship in the first place... since at that point I didn't know if they felt the same way?

But other ones have been surprisingly easier, maybe because I felt like we were on the same page...

So you were the one who asked? Would it have been easier, you think, if they had asked you first?

Oh, definitely. I'm embarrassed to say I had to drink quite a bit before I had the courage to say anything! I was worried it would be overstepping in what was a perfectly good friendship already.

I have a crippling inability of telling people I love them and I despise myself for it. But I'm trying to overcome it, for them, because they deserve to know.

How do you know if you love someone?

It's really different for everyone.

Well, how was it for you?

Hard to explain, I just know when it happens.

But I'll make an effort to try: I think the best way for me is...knowing that everyone has and is living their own story, but at some point, I want to be a part of theirs and help make it the best that I can.

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(Anonymous) - 2021-03-19 00:10 (UTC) - Expand

the hardest part is when it ends

Do you go into every relationship expecting it to end?

yes? do you go into every relationship expecting it to last forever

No, I've only been in one relationship.

But I think viewing something right from the beginning as doomed to fail might only bring the end sooner.

hahaha fuck you

Realising I was interested in them enough to want to have a serious relationship with them. For some reason I imagined I would be okay with keeping it casual, only for us to immediately fail that step.

Was it just a physical relationship, before that?

It's more like we were friends and things happened that lead to us deciding to try out being friends who held hands and kiss sometimes? And then we immediately had more feelings than is appropriate for that.

I see. Things are going well, though?

I suppose so? We're dating now, somehow.

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